죄송합니다. Didn't mean to intrude their privacy. I only
wanted to capture this sweet moment shared between a couple in love. Its not unusual to see this in Korea which was
actually quite surprising to me. When I
first visited Korea many years ago, I don't remember seeing couples expressing
their affections for each other in the public. From my observation in these two
trips to Korea, I felt that Korean couples are very romantic. I am referring to dating couples. Why do I say so?
I always see couples having a long “bye bye session” when they are bidding
good bye to each other. Such scenes are very common in the subway stations. The couple will look lovingly into each other's eyes for a long long time and couldn’t
bear to part each other. Once I saw a couple parting at the exit of the subway station. I think they took at least 10mins to disappear from each other's sight. Looking at each other with tender love and care, distance between them went apart centimetres by centimetres.. It felt as though one of them was going away for a long time. Yeah, I really stay to observe becos I find that’s so
sweet. I’m not used to it becos such
loving scenes will not appeared in Singapore. Was it due to the drama effect or Koreans are romantic people? Initially,
I find this long “bye bye session” a bit dramatic. Gradually, I grew to like it
and it made me wanna fall in love in Korea as well.
Hahaaa..
Aside from the ups and downs, and other realistic aspects in a relationship, I think Korea is a
very romantic place to fall in love and being in love. My friends can
never understand why I like Korean guys so much. Many people said Korean
guys are male chauvinists and some even beat up their girlfriends or
wives. Yeah perhaps, but I still like Korean guys a lot and I believed I will
not meet someone who will beat me up. Anyway, I despised guys who hit girls.
Well, it doesn't mean that non Korean guys will not beat their girlfriends/wives. It also doesn't mean that non Korean guy will
not be a male chauvinist, right?? Male chauvinist is not an issue for
me. Okay, some girls will probably shake their
heads and call me an useless bum. Well, as long as I’m happy, isn’t
it?? If you ask me why I like Korea so
much, the only reason I can give myself is, perhaps I was a Korean in my past life!
Hahahaa..
People at different age groups have different ways of showing their affections for their partners. There are also people who are not good in showing their love and appreciations for their love ones but that doesn't mean they love their partners any lesser. Whatever it is, I wish all couples happiness, stand by each other in times of good and bad, and grow old together just like the old couple whom I encountered at Songdo Beach last year.
As much as I saw many loving couples, I did see a few sad faces here as well. In my personal opinion, this place makes a great hangout with lovers and friends but not for those who just fallen out of love.
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